Hi, my name is Bob Grant and you’re about to see how a 41 year old single mom named Anna with 3 small children went from divorced, single, alone and hopeless to… having men constantly pursuing her everywhere (including the elevator!).
Until She Chose the One Special Man Who Stood Out From All the Others
The one man who promised to “love her forever” and finally convinced her to be his.
I’m also going to show you why so many of the things you’ve been told that attract a man are wrong. Such as:
- Why being positive and upbeat all the time actually makes him ignore your needs.
- So many women open their hearts to a man because he tells them he loves them and promises his devotion.
- And yet these same women often miss this key warning sign.
In fact, they actually tell women exactly the OPPOSITE of what they need. So I’m going to tell you exactly what a man wants, even though most men don’t even realize this themselves.
Most men tell women that they want them to more laid back and easy going and not to complain. Yet that’s just what Anna did before she started working with me and the man she loved still left her, even though she gave him exactly what he told her he wanted.
Based on her experience, and hundreds of other clients in my private practice I decided to take all of my clinical training as a licensed Professional and began doing research to find the hidden emotional key that made a man want to connect with a woman on a deep emotional level and stay committed to her.
Even if she wasn’t the prettiest, thinnest or anything that Cosmo magazine said she should be. I’ve been doing this for 20 years now and I’ve cracked the Bonding Code for thousands of women.
Alfred Adler, who worked with Sigmund Freud, also described this almost mystical quality nearly 100 years ago that enabled a woman to captivate a man, almost without even trying and yet so few women have ever been told about it’s truly hypnotic effect on men…until now
What is so amazing is that this works for you…
Even if You don’t have the body of a Victoria Secret lingerie model.
So I need you to pay close attention to this ENTIRE message right now. Because if you miss just one second of what I’m about to share with you… just ONE PART… this Bonding Code might not work. This is the EXACT same formula that I shared with Anna on our first visit. (Yes, the same Anna I mentioned at the beginning who was 41, divorced and had two kids and no self-confidence to date).
So she did what she thought a man would like. She almost always agreed to his sexual advances while being both positive and upbeat, most of the time.In fact Tyler often bragged to other couples that she was one of the most giving women he had ever known.
All Seemed Well Until One Fateful Morning…
She was making her morning coffee when Tyler came into the kitchen and sat down at the table…and waited. At first, she thought nothing of this until she turned around and saw him staring off into space.
“Anything wrong?” she innocently asked.
For a moment he didn’t say anything, until he took a deep breath and uttered the words that punched her in the stomach:
“I’m sorry, but I think we should separate.”
At that moment she found it suddenly hard to breath as she forced the words to come out, “but…but..why?”
“I’m sorry,” he said, “but I just don’t think I’m in love with you anymore.”
The words cut her like a knife as a sense of both fear and numbness engulfed her.
Desperately she wanted to talk with him yet he said he had to leave and that they would discuss it later, but later never came that day.
Tyler never offered her a reason except to say that something was missing and he couldn’t stay with her any longer. In the coming days her mind raced from thoughts of fear to anger and then back to fear as the questions kept racing through her mind…
Was he having an affair?
If she could just understand, then she could fix it.
But the understanding she wanted never came as she went from begging him to stay to accepting the cold reality that he would never return.
After 3 months she felt that she was going to drown in grief if she didn’t talk with someone so a friend referred her to me.
After a few minutes sitting across from me she paused, looked me in the eye and ask, “Bob, who’s going to want a 41 year old divorced woman with 3 small children?” After losing the man who had promised to love her forever, I understood her doubts and fears.
Fast Forward 8 Months and You Wouldn’t Recognize This Same Woman
One afternoon she went to see her attorney and entered the elevator to his 14th floor office. When she got in she pushed the button for her floor and noticed a man who was busy talking to someone on his cellphone.
As the elevator began it’s ascent, he stopped his call and glanced at her, then looked away. She felt a nervous twinge then not a moment later she was shocked when he said, “I’m sorry, but I don’t normally do this. I don’t know if I’ll ever see you again so I wanted to ask you if I could call you sometime.”
As the elevator came to her floor she just knew the look of complete shock was draped all over her face, but somehow she managed to say,“Oh, thank you but I’m afraid I’ve got to go.”
She tried to dismiss her experience as something random, until 2 weeks later at a friend’s dinner party. She had reluctantly agreed to go and didn’t feel especially social, yet that evening 2 men were captivated by her every word. The attention was almost overwhelming for her as each ask her when they would see her again.
No longer was she broken and despondent, and in the coming weeks she had men calling her constantly and begging her to spend time with her. The doubts that haunted her just a few months ago now seemed almost silly.
So what happened that made this 41 year old single mother of 3 go from being abandoned to suddenly sought after by over a dozen men?
Everything began to change for her once she learned this secret – the hard way:
As a Woman it is Critical That You
Understand a Man’s Emotional Needs More
Than He Does or Else He’ll Pull You into
What I Call the “Giving Pit.”
This is the unconscious and destructive urge within a man that is only happy when you’re doing something to please him. It is as dangerous as a Vampire that drains the very life out of a helpless young woman. And here’s the big trap. He will EVEN say this is what he wants. But don’t listen and don’t give in!
You must never fall into this pit. You know, where you give into what he wants because you think it will make him happy.
That it will keep him devoted to you.
That it will make him love you.